照吃照喝不上健身房 美国胖妞年减逾50公斤(组图)

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【新唐人北京时间2020年08月06日讯】美国加州一名曾经重达100多公斤的女子在大约一年的期间里减重超过120磅(54公斤),而且没有上健身房,也没有刻意让自己饿肚子。她不但甩掉了身上的肥肉,也减轻了多年来心理上所承受的压力。那么,她是如何办到的呢?

这名在牧场工作的27岁女子特威瑟尔曼(Kiah Twisselman)从小就为肥胖所苦,她的体重一度高达285磅(129公斤)。在看了《女孩洗把脸》(Girl Wash Your Face)这本书之后,她下决心要减肥

有别于贸然采取节食等比较激进的减肥方法,特威瑟尔曼以逐步改变生活方式来减轻体重。她并没有上健身房运动,而且照样吃她喜爱的食物,例如牛肉。

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Going out to eat while trying to lose weight used to give me anxiety. Shortly after starting my health journey, we were invited to a birthday dinner for a friend at a local pizza joint. Before dinner I did what I still do to this day, I planned ahead. I looked up the menu and decided I was going to order a salad for dinner that night. Decision made. As we sat down and started visiting with our friends, the waitress came to take orders. Every single appetizer that was ordered for the table was bread-based. Hot fresh breadsticks are my kryptonite – I LOVE THEM. While everyone else was enjoying each other’s company, I was quietly and internally wallowing in my own self pity. I sat there letting my mind spiral, thinking things like, “I wish I could just eat foods like a normal person. I wish I didn’t have to follow these stupid diet rules. I don’t get to enjoy this birthday dinner as much as everyone else.” I honored my commitment, passing on the appetizers and ordering a salad for dinner. And guess what… I survived! It wasn’t until afterwards that I had a realization. Instead of letting my mind focus on thoughts that victimized myself, a more helpful thought could have been, “I am making an empowered choice to honor my decision, not because I CAN’T have bread, but because my long term goals are more important to me than the instant gratification of fresh breadsticks.” WOW. Same circumstance. Different thought. Entirely different feeling. The first thought made me feel like crap. The second thought made me feel proud that I was honoring a commitment to myself! My approach to dieting is that I CAN have whatever I want, but I get to make EMPOWERED CHOICES to plan on how to fuel my body best with balance and moderation. Some moments it just takes reminding myself of that, taking total ownership, not only of my actions, but also of my thoughts that influence them. I’ve said it once, and I’ll say it again – the most important and powerful part of this whole health journey is our mindset. You are not a victim to your circumstances. You are not a victim to diet rules. This is your life, take ownership of it and start making EMPOWERED CHOICES on how to live it.

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她认为,与其为了减肥而强迫自己做不爱做的事情,倒不如经由持续的小步骤来创造自己喜爱的生活方式,进而达到减肥的目的。她采取的5个小步骤包括:

●为自己提早一个小时起床
●喝适量的水
●每天让身体动30分钟
●放弃一项无益于身体健康的食物
●每天写下10件让自己感激的事情

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The only part of my body I used to like was my eyes. They are ice blue just like my dad’s, and the only part of my body I couldn’t consider overweight! I hated every other part of me. My arms were saggy. My legs lumpy. My stomach flabby. I felt so uncomfortable in my own skin, desperate to escape it. My desperation led me to sign up for countless fad diets. Maybe this would be the one, the quick fix that will make me beautiful and worthy. I thought that maybe if I was skinnier I’d finally be able to accept myself, I’d finally be able to live life with confidence. I’d start off each new diet strong, and then once I made the first mistake, I’d use that as evidence for why I was destined to fail again. Instead of giving myself grace and forgiveness, I’d spiral, piling on more shame and self-loathing. And then, to buffer away my emotions and disappointment, I’d eat. Food was my comfort, an instant release of dopamine to allow me to escape my feelings and discomfort. And so, the pattern would continue. Hate myself. Start a diet. Make a mistake. Hate myself more. Eat food. Gain weight. And repeat. This time, I knew things had to be different. I had to BREAK THE CYCLE – a cycle that I had created in my own mind. I knew I needed to learn to love myself FIRST, instead of focusing on the diet or exercise plan, as if my physical appearance was the solution to my problems. You, as you are, are beautiful, worthy, and whole. When we learn to love ourself FIRST, our journey becomes fueled by our commitment each day to becoming our best, rather than by self-shame and punishment. When we love ourself first, we forgive ourself, we stop quitting on ourself, and we reach for more. Not because we hate who we are, but because we love who we know we were always meant to be.

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特威瑟尔曼从2018年10月开始减重。到了2019年1月,她已经成功减轻25磅(11公斤)。这样的结果激励她设定更大的目标,她希望在2019年10月前减重100磅(45公斤)。而她最终在这一年内减少了120磅(54公斤)的体重。

对于特威瑟尔曼而言,最大的改变不是她的身体,而是她的心理。她告诉“无聊熊猫”(Bored Panda)网站说:“更重要的是,我减轻了多年来心理上所承受的压力。”

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Stop saying you’ll start over on Monday. I don’t care if you haven’t exercised in 5 years. I don’t care if you just got done binging a gallon of ice cream on the couch in one sitting. Making a mistake or taking a break doesn’t mean you have to turn around and start over. When we tell ourselves we’re going to start over, we’re making the false assumption that we’ll do it perfectly next time. We think that if we can’t do it flawlessly, then we shouldn’t do it at all. Stop self-sabotaging yourself with your BS all-or-nothing mentality. You get to decide, right now in this moment, to stand back up. You get to choose to learn from your failure and walk through it, only becoming stronger on the other side. This journey has been a long, imperfect one. I’ve given into food urges, I’ve missed workouts, I’ve gained weight just as fast as I’ve lost it. I fail all the freakin’ time. But I always choose to stand back up. Failure is guaranteed, standing back up is a choice. What will you choose for yourself? Size 20 ?? Size 6

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她还提到,她减肥成功的另一个关键因素是她不怕失败,她认为失败是成功之母。

她说:“失败很重要,因为如果你失败,这意味着你有进步。每一次的失败都是一件幸事,因为它是一个工具和机会,可以让你学到某种东西,而且在另一方面变得更坚强。”

在减肥有成之后,特威瑟尔曼在媒体和社交网站上分享她成功的秘诀,同时指导人们如何减肥。她目前在Instagram网站上的粉丝已有超过2万名。

(转自大纪元/责任编辑:张信燕)

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